How to Move From Courtship to Commitment

Men and women excited to learn the how – to’s of love and relationship get what they want from their relationships because they know how to move from courtship to commitment. Learning how to do things that excite us prompts us to want to learn more.  People excited to make money want to learn how to make more money.  Athletes excited to learn how to compete with the best want to learn how to be better than the best.  

Know How to Decide What They Want

Men and women who know how to make relationships work decide what appeals to them.  They are clear on the look appealing to them; health, height, weight, complexion and color of hair.  They know the education and income generating capacity they want.  They know with certainty what spiritual and behavioral contexts they want. 

Know How to Learn What Works to Get What They Want

They seek people who have succeeded in getting what they want.  They research others involved and invested in relationships with people like the ones they have chosen for themselves.   They learn what has been successful for others and develop their own plans.  They learn where to go and what to do to attract what they want.

Know How to Plan to Get What They Want

Plans build on the foundation of learning what works.  Strategic plans follow.  Goals and timetables are set for their achievement.   The process to courtship, dating and mating begins with location selection for meeting new people.  Introductions should indicate interests in getting to know new persons of interest.  Ask for dates and screen candidates until the significant emerge.

Know How to Commit to Doing What Works

When the significant emerge, continue to communicate your intentional goals.  Interests to commitment must be mutual to lead to relationship success.  Negotiate a mutual and beneficial understanding.   Express your hope and desire for long-term commitment.

Know How to Know When You Have What You Want

You will know when the person you have chosen has agreed to commit to you when you have negotiated how you will share what each of you bring to the commitment.  You have what you want. The sharing of fun, love and work together begins.

Know How to Enjoy Having What You Want

You have what you want.  You are committed to give and share each other’s love and affection.  You share your up moments and your challenges.  Together, you are more than when you were alone.  Give thanks for your shared love.  Live, love and enjoy your committed relationship.  You have achieved the goal of a lifetime.  

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