On the 3rd Day of Christmas DENISE J.

On the third day of Christmas my true love sent to me the Scorpio Santa Babe originally from Queens, New York now living in Sanford, North Carolina, Denise J. along with 3 French Hens, 2 Turtle Doves, and a Partridge in a Pear Tree.

Denise's favorite quote is her own. She says, "I am a female with a mind. I am a woman with an attitude. I am a lady with class." I heard that!

Her favorite Christmas song is Gladys Knight singing O Holy Night. Her favorite Christmas symbol is the mistletoe. I will try to find her with mine in hand. Her favorite Christmas movie is the Miracle on 34th Street.

One of Denise's most memorable times at Christmas was when her family would gather around the fireplace to sing songs when she was a little girl. Her favorite Christmas gift was a Susey Smart Doll.

Her hope for herself and her family is health and happiness. Her hope for the world this Christmas is to share with those that do not have. If Denise could say one thing to the world this Christmas, she would say, "Let There Be Peace,"

Denise's closing comment is never forget those that are in need, especially the children. Please help.  

Show this Santa Babe some love at her email address deej461@gmail.com. Follow her on Tagged.

Denise, thank you for honoring us with your Santa Babe person and presence. Love and Blessings to you for a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year for 2015.

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On the 2nd Day of Christmas MAR'LISA NAKWAS

On the second day of Christmas my true love sent to me the beauty from Butte, Montana, Mar'lisa Renee' Nakwas; 2 Turtle Doves and a Partridge in a Pear Tree.

Mar'lisa is five feet of power and Gemini who sums up her favorite of everything she has learned about life in three words. LIFE GOES ON.

Mar'lisa favorite Christmas symbol is the dove. Her favorite Christmas song is I'll be home for Christmas and her favorite Christmas movie is Miracle on 34th Street. Her favorite Christmas memory is being with all her family.

Mar'lisa favorite Christmas gift is a heart locket necklace with some of her mother's ashes given to , her by her little sister Shelly. Her Christmas wish for family and friends is to give the joy of brightening each others' lives, bearing each others' burdens,easing each others' loads, and filling each others' empty hearts and lives with generous gifts of love.

If Mar'lisa could say one thing to the world, she recommends live your life to the fullest each and every day. We never know when the end is near. So live, love, laugh, and persist. Be tough when the going gets tough. Keep in mind as long as you keep going you will eventually get to where you want to be.

Mar'lisa's closing statement says, "I want to this time to say thank you Oscar Crawford for being a great friend to me. You always are here for me no matter where we are in this world in our lives. You always pick me up. You are my best supporter. You never judge me. You laugh with me. 

"I thank you for being honest and respectful of my values and opinions, even for making my crazy stories of my life seem important. You always remind me to stay true to myself. Most of all, thank you for sharing your life with me. Peace, Love and Happiness." Mar'lisa

Thank you Mar'lisa. You are not just a Santa Babe, you are a babe every day and bring delight and good times to all around you. You make our world a better place everyday from Butte.

Reach out to Mar'lisa.  Show her love on Facebook. Send her an email to marnkirk72@gmail.com.

Is it a good life, or what? We are just getting started with the Santa Babes 12 Days of Christmas.

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On the 1st Day of Christmas ANGELA BUCHANAN SPARKS

Welcome to Oscar Crawford Media presents the 12 Days of Christmas Santa Babes in the Spotlight 2104. We love Christmas at Oscar Crawford Media and love honoring amazing women during the holy holiday season with presentations of the 12 Pearls of Christmas or the 12 Days of Christmas Santa Babes in the Spotlight.

2014 is a Christmas that will never be forgotten. 2014's stunning Santa Babes are from Australia to Arizona, Texas to Kentucky, New York to North Carolina, California to Arkansas, and Montana to Oklahoma.

Get Ready! Get Ready! Here comes Number One RIGHT NOW!

Angela Buchanan - Sparks

On the first day of Christmas my true love sent to me: A Partridge in a Pear Tree and Santa Babe Angela Buchanan - Sparks. Angela is a Cancerian born on July 13 in the San Francisco Bay Area City of Oakland California, home of the NFL Oakland Raiders and MLB Oakland Athletics. Angela currently lives in Bentonville, Arkansas.

Angela reports her favorite quote is, 'This Too Shall Pass.' Rev, James Cleveland did it best. Her favorite Christmas symbol is Christmas Lights. Her favorite Christmas song is 'O, Holy Night.' Her favorite Christmas movie is the perennial favorite of many, 'It's a Wonderful Life' starring James Stewart, Donna Reed and Lionel Barrymore.'

Angela's favorite Christmas memory came after one of her most challenging moments as a little girl. Her father passed away when she was five years old a few months before Christmas. She remembers asking her mother for and getting a record player.

Her favorite Christmas gift was a new engagement ring from her husband. She hopes for Love, Peace and Blessings for herself, her family, and for her world this Christmas.

If she could say anything to the whole world this Christmas, it would be a phrase she coined in 2008, 'Grasp Joy. Love Life.' To all this Christmas, she would leave us with, 'May everyone  keep the Spirit of Christmas which is Jesus in their heart's all year long, not just this season. One Love.

You can show Angela your love at her email address msangela713@yahoo.com or visit her on her Facebook.

Angela, thank you for being a Santa Babe 2014 and blessing us on this first day the 12 Days of Christmas. Our hopes and prayers are for Much Love and Many Blessings to you and that this will be your best Christmas ever.

Santa Baby was recorded by Eartha Kitt, the Catwoman (meow) herself, with Henri Rene' and his orchestra in 1952 in New York City

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Late Night Talk for Grownups

This is late night talk for grownups in pursuit of human relations understanding among people who are different by race and color. 

I am Oscar Crawford. My friends call me, O. I hope you will, too.

If you ask someone who is white, what is it like to be white, you get the what do you mean look. There is no context for thinking white for people white, unless may be you are the white guy who feels denigrated in a time of social change. 

If you ask someone who is black, what it is like to be black, you might hear, how much time do you have available because this is going to take a while. We, who are black have a a defined thinking context for this question. 

If you ask a man what it is like to be man, you will get very short to no sentences as a response. If you ask a woman what it is like to be a woman, again, you might hear, how much time do you have available because this is going to take a while. 

If you have an understanding of these statements without the necessity of judgment or prompts to anger, I commend you to making new friends and building new relationships. You are ready. 

This comment is a prelude to a comment I will make on the new comedy on ABC called black - ish. This is late night talk for grownups in pursuit of human relations understanding among people who are different by race and color.

MY THREE SENSE

Women and men, boys and girls must sense three things to experience meaningful life. There must a sense of belonging, a sense of accomplishment, and a sense of relevance.

There must be a sense of belonging because people develop their sense of identity relationships with others. We are sons, daughters, friends, neighbors of something more than we are alone.

There must be a sense of accomplishment. We must have a sense of knowing that we contribute, give to, or serve the greater community of connections and relationships. I cook. I clean. I demonstrate care. I am dependable.

There must be a sense of relevance. We must have a sense of knowing we are important to the larger group of greater community of connections, and relationships. We stand out in community. People know our names. We have identity. We give to the community. The community gives to us.

Make all three sense a goal. When all three are present, life is meaningful.

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HEY, Are You ALIVE or JUST PRETENDING

Hey, are you alive or just pretending. Will you ever wake up? Or, will you continue to perpetuate the fraud you have it all together while all the time locked away in your personal jail hell??

The great truth that gets covered up in our preoccupations keep us from experiencing real relationships with the many who want to connect in very real ways just like us. And so, we bury ourselves inside the trivial hoping something meaningful will show up and make a major announcement we are saved from our internal hell that we have created and perpetuated.

When I finish this, I go for a walk by a beautiful lake to love life, myself, and whoever I shall be privilege to share a real moment. What are you doing to break free for your self imposed jail cell in hell.

This following video can help you put you and your personal mess in perspective. It is called Look Up.
After viewing, I hope you will.

Let's talk outside the digital space. I have a phone. I bet you do, too. I want to hear your voice and you. Now, I am on my way to the lake. Maybe, I will meet you there.

My name is Oscar Crawford. My Friends call me O. I hope you will, too. O

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